When his family left Afghanistan and moved to Pakistan, Abbasi was
almost 10, he said. After spending five years in Pakistan, they came
to the United States in 1994.
“This is my country,” he said.
Abbasi, who attended Robinson Secondary School in Fairfax graduating
in 1997, said he always dreamed of owning a restaurant and worked
hard to get it. After graduation, he worked two jobs: one at his brother's
restaurant in Alexandria and another at a different restaurant.
“I learned from the best,” he said about his brother.
In 2001, he opened the Afghan Kabob Restaurant. He said he loves his
work and customers and wants to bring the Afghan culture closer to
his mainly American clientele.
One way he does this, Abbasi said, is that during Ramadan he gives
a free ifta, the meal that breaks the fast after sundown, to his costumers.
He also picked the pictures that hang in the restaurant and made sure
they had some historical or cultural value, he said.
He pointed to the picture next to him. It shows the Blue Mosque in
Mazar-e Sharif, a flock of white doves flying in front of it.
“Why do you think the birds are all white?” he asked. “Customers have
been asking me that, and I didn't know, so I researched until I found
the answer. When someone has a prayer, he brings a bird to the mosque,
and, when he returns to it a couple of days later, the bird turned
white.”
Abbasi said he takes every challenge that comes his way.
“I love the people here,” Abbasi said, noting that his customers have
supported him during difficult times.
After 9/11, he said, many regulars gave him checks “in case business
went slow.”
“I still have the checks,” he added but said he has had no need for
them.
A year later, in 2002, the restaurant burned down, and it took Abbasi
two years to reopen. He was not sure if he would open the restaurant
again.
“It was closed for a long period,” he said, but customers kept asking
him to reopen.
“That's why I love this place,” he said, adding that it was “exciting
for me to open back up.”
Abbasi also does not mind competition. It is when a new restaurant
opens in the neighborhood that he works at his best, he said.
“I love competition,” he said. “I get excited. If you do good things,
you get good things.”